What My Dad Taught me About Marriage

Your greatest teammates are the ones that stay by your side after the final whistle blows. Take care of your loved ones and they will be there for you in the many decades to come. And remember, don't be afraid to ask for help.

Feb. 23, 2015 The Generous Husband

I know my mom and dad had struggles in their marriage. Nothing compared to many, but it was not as happy as I wish it had been. We didn’t see much of that as kids, but looking back with what I know now, and what I found in some of his journals after he was gone, I have some idea. I know they had different ideas about raising kids, about where to retire, and about sex. I mention this because it makes what my dad taught me about marriage all the more impressive.

My dad taught me marriage is for life.
He taught me, by words and actions, to keep working on your marriage. Never give up; never settle.
He taught me sex was an important, wonderful part of marriage.
I was expected to respect my mother even when I didn’t agree with her.
I learned men and women are not the same, and men are supposed to honour and protect women.
He showed me caring for your wife and kids was more important than getting what you want.