Article Bookmarked
Bookmark Removed

The Summer Bucket List


Jul. 22, 2019 Fatherly

Ah, summer. The season of ice cream and bike rides and, ah s***, how long until school starts back up? The truth is, summer can feel a bit stressful. It’s the season of fun, after all. And that reputation comes with a certain list of demands. Days on the calendar need to be filled with exciting activities for kids that make the beautiful weather worthwhile. But, the one truth about summer is it’s often over before you know it. And — because what are parents if not memory makers for their kids? — it’s important to enjoy the time before things get really hectic again. To spend a lot of time outside. To eat good food. To teach the kids how to catch a Frisbee, skip a stone, or spend a lazy afternoon in the sun (it is an art, after all). To help you out, here’s a list of simple activities no summer is complete without. We hope it inspires you to have a family summer you won’t forget.

  1. Go for a drive to nowhere for no reason on a backroad with the windows wide open.
  2. Grow something you can eat.
  3. Read a series of books together.
  4. Go to a fair or festival. Eat something fried on a stick.
  5. Set up summer camp in your backyard. Come up with a list of activities and competitions, from sports to arts and crafts, and have the entire family take part. Finish the night by sleeping out in the yard.
  6. Take the kids to a movie in an air-conditioned theater on a hot day.
  7. Play a song too loud at a stoplight while singing along too loud with the windows wide open. (Realistic Dad Says: Be prepared for the kids to yell at you to switch to Imagine Dragons. Counteroffer silence.)
  8. Make a summer ice cream checklist. Try to check off all the options before summer’s over.
  9. Set up a bunch of sprinklers and slip ‘n slides in your yard. Run through them. Repeat. (Realistic Dad Says: You’re okay with having a mud pit for a yard, right?)
  10. Eat a watermelon. Have a seed-spitting competition. (Realistic Dad Says: Just understand that every watermelon your kids will ever eat from here on out will end up with seeds in an eye.)
  11. Find a creek. Walk through it.
  12. Eat potato salad at a picnic table.
  13. Go to a field on a clear night and stare at the stars. Point out some constellations. Mistake a plane’s lights for Mars.
  14. Drink Kool-Aid. Show off your sweet Kool-Aid mustache.
  15. Have a biggest-splash competition at the pool. Perform your craziest cannonball or jack knife.
  16. Tye-dye some old t-shirts. (Realistic Dad Says: Introduce them to the Grateful Dead while doing it, why don’t you? … Dick’s Pick No. 32 is a solid late Dead show from your, not Grandpa’s, era.)
  17. Spend an entire day at the museum. Many even have free family days during the season.
  18. Make a big batch of popcorn and binge watch something as a family. Maybe Harry Potter. Maybe Star Wars. Whatever it is, dress up for it. Get everyone psyched. (Realistic Dad Says: You’ll probably regret this one.)
  19. Create an ice cream sundae bar. Get all the fixings. Let the kids go wild creating their sugary monstrosities.
  20. Spend all day smoking a pork shoulder or brisket while playing in the backyard. (Realistic Dad Says: You’re going to have to take a sick day for this one to do it while the kids are at camp. Worth it.)
  21. Sit in front of a fire. Sing songs. Tell ghost stories. Make s’mores.
  22. Set up a screen and host a backyard movie night.
  23. Plan a family bike ride.
  24. Make homemade popsicles in paper cups.
  25. Play a big game of hide and seek or capture the flag in the early evening.
  26. Open a map. Find some place an hour away you’ve never been. Go there. (Realistic Dad Says: Download the area for offline use on Google Maps, just in case.)
  27. Have a water gun battle.
  28. Help your kids start a lemonade stand. Name the business. Make signs. Charm customers. Teach them how to handle money. Pick a charity and donate the proceeds to it.
  29. Go to a baseball game. Majors or minors. Eat hot dogs in the stand. Do the wave. Keep score the old-fashioned way.
  30. Plan a long family hike. Pack snacks. Write down the names of all the animals you see.

Click Read More for 33 other bucket list items.

Read More on Fatherly

Gene Upshaw Player Assistance Trust Fund

Apply Today

All Resources

Tell Me More

1 in 4 Americans have no retirement savings

And those who do aren’t saving enough

Read More

10 Reasons Why Men and Women Avoid Emotional Intimacy

Building connection in your relationship can take time and effort.

Read More

30 Small, Nice Ways to Stay Connected to Your Partner

The more connected you feel to your partner, the better you'll both be.

Read More

How to Not Let Anger Get the Best of You

Know how anger is triggered and tactics to cooling down.

Read More

Black people in rural areas continue to experience health disparities

Comparisons come from rates in diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, and stroke.

Read More

Creative Strategies from Single Parents on Juggling Work and Family

Flexible work schedules and strong support networks go a long way.

Read More

Key Insights From 2021's World Happiness Report

Three must-know insights from this year’s World Happiness Report.

Read More

The Science of Changing Someone's Mind

How to reason with unreasonable people.

Read More